To Stroller or Not to Stroller - the Burning Question of the Theme Park Visitor

So you’ve decided to take your family to Disney or Universal - YAY!! You’ve got some important decisions to make. One of the most difficult to decide is if you are going to take a stroller or not. Sounds simple but there are a lot of factors that go into the decision. Today, I’ll help you decide.

Your kids’ ages will play a lot into your decision. If you have an infant that you’re fine carrying in a sling, then you might get away with not pushing a stroller. If you have a toddler that has a hard time following the rules of holding hands then you may need the stroller just to make sure they stay with you at all times. An older child may be great at walking on their own and staying with you, but may lack the stamina to walk many miles in a day. If you think you’ll skip the stroller, be sure to do long walks ahead of time to get those little legs ready!

Here are my pros and cons for using a stroller:

Pros for Using Stroller:

  • Gives your child a ride and you can move quickly through the parks rather than dragging them along

  • You have a place to store your bag/food/drinks/souvenirs in the stroller storage

  • If you rent one outside the parks or bring your own, you can use it to get to the bus and to your hotel (you do have to fold it up on the bus)

  • Gives your child a place to nap while you shop/dine/wander the parks

  • If you have a kid that tends to dart off into crowds, the stroller can keep them right where you want them

  • When it’s hot, it’s nice to not have to carry a hot little body up against you

Pros for Going Without Stroller:

  • You don’t have to navigate the stroller through crowds

  • You can’t take strollers into most attractions so you have to take it to the parking area and find it when done with attraction - without it you can just jump in line for the attraction

  • You have to fold the stroller up when boarding Disney bus transportation - if your child is sound asleep, you may have to do this with one hand while holding your child so make sure it’s easy to fold!

  • Florida is notorious for thunderstorms that sneak up on you - you will probably need a rain cover if you have a stroller

  • Just one more thing to keep up with

  • You may not have a place to store your packages but remember if you stay on site, you can always have them sent straight to your resort

  • You’ll need to bring a bag (I’d suggest a backpack) to carry anything you might need. If it’s a hot day, you’ll want to bring lots of water!

  • Stroller rentals aren’t free - you’ll save a few bucks that you could use for a Dole Whip!

Don’t be afraid to call an audible and change your game plan when you’re there. If you get a few hours into your day and know that your child just won’t make it, go to the stroller rental!! It may cost you a few dollars more than if you reserved it ahead of time, but may save your sanity if you’ve got a toddler in meltdown mode.

I LOVED the last few trips we went on with no stroller. My kids are obviously older now and we didn’t need one but there’s something thrilling about graduating from the stroller days. Ask me tomorrow though and I may cry at the thought of not needing a stroller while I watch my oldest drive an actual car…

All families are different and have different circumstances. Call me and we can chat about your specifics and I can help you with your choice!

Help!! I've lost my child!!

Losing your child in the grocery store or other smallish area is terrifying.  Now imagine losing them at Disney World with a million people and acres of land.  Not a spot you want to be in.  I've got a few tips to help you avoid this disaster and information on what to do if it does occur.

Prepare ahead of time by purchasing ID tags that the kids can wear.  Especially for younger kids (and even older ones when they're stressed about being lost), this is important as they may not know their parents' full names or phone numbers.  I bought some for our boys that attached to their shoes and the info was written in permanent marker.  I put them on before the trip and we didn't have to worry about remembering it each morning or trying to keep them dry.  It worked out perfectly.  And with MagicBands now, I know a lot of people print their cell phone numbers inside of them.

Have your kids wear the same shirts if possible and wear bright or unique colors so they are easily spotted.  We had a minor scare during a parade when I lost sight of Andrew.  As I was frantically calling his name and spinning in circles, another guest pointed at my other two and said, "If he's dressed like those guys, he's behind that mailbox."  Sure enough, he had gotten scared from the noise of the parade and sat down to cover his ears.  I imagine I would have spotted him in another second but seconds are a lifetime when you're missing your child!

 

Consider the backpack leash.  I know, I know, most people are against them and I've never actually done it myself.  But the people who use them say their kids are happier since they aren't stuck holding a sweaty hand and feel like they have a little more freedom to roam.

When you first arrive at the parks, show them a Cast Member and have them pay attention to the fact that they are wearing a name tag.  If they get lost, they can ask a Cast Member for help.

Take a picture each morning on your phone of your kids before heading out.  That way, if they do get lost, you have a current picture including what they are wearing.  

Have a talk about staying together.  There's so much to see and do that there are times when it's a must to hold hands.  If they know going into the day that they may need to hold hands, you might avoid a meltdown when that time comes.

If you have older kids with phones, talk to them about a meeting spot if you get separated.  Sometimes phone batteries die or you just can't get reception.  Just don't pick Cinderella's Castle as your meeting spot.  Something that large makes it impossible to find someone.  Be specific - meet at the FastPass entrance to Peter Pan's Flight for instance.  Also consider downloading an App such as Find My Friends to keep track of older kids if they are exploring the park alone.

If you do happen to lose a child, don't panic.  Contact the first Cast Member you see.  As per usual Disney standards, they have procedures in place and will help you.  Just remind your child to stay put - no searching for you as you are probably going in circles.  And if they can't locate a Cast Member then have them ask a Mom with a child to help them get to a Cast Member.  

If you have other ideas to keep track of your kids, post them in the comments!!

How to Travel to Disney with Babies or Young Kids

It's no secret that babies can make the worst travelers.  But I'm here to tell you that we successfully took Luke to Disney World when he was 9 months old.  Going into the trip, I would have said that just surviving it would be a success but it was so much easier than I expected.  And I'm shocked when I think back on it, because not only did we take this trip with a baby, we had 2 preschoolers also.  Surely you didn't think I left Ryan and Andrew home!

To make the trip even more exciting, we decided to drive.  And we don't live anywhere near Florida.  We began our trip in Oklahoma.  Disney World is over 1200 miles from here - if you drove straight through, it would take around 19 hours.  

We're not that crazy though.  We did stop overnight in Memphis and Atlanta.  

So before you say you'd be crazy to take little kids to Disney, it can be done and it can be an amazing time with some of the best memories of your life!  

Tips from past trips with little ones:

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There are a lot of excellent places to rest and nurse or give a bottle.  There are nursing stations at each park.  I found that the People Mover at Magic Kingdom is one of the best places to relax out of the sun and give a bottle.

Take a small flashlight for young kids to use in the evenings if they are afraid of the dark.  My kids wore a small one around their necks on a lanyard.

Make use of the playground areas for crawlers.  Sitting in a stroller or being held all day leads to a lot of pent-up energy!

Order diapers and groceries you may need ahead of time from GardenGrocer.com.  They will deliver it to your resort and have it waiting for you when you arrive.  You can even order refrigerated items and the resorts will hold those items in cold storage for you.

 

 

If you have kids that are bothered by loud noises, consider taking headphones or some sort of noise canceling item.  Andrew was not a fan of a lot of the fireworks shows and parades due to noise.

Order tags ahead of time that you can attach to kids' shoes with your contact info in case they get lost.  

Sunscreen, sunscreen, sunscreen!  And hats!  If you go in the summer, you're going to be hot and a hot baby is an unhappy baby for sure.

Take advantage of the free water cups offered at Quick-Service locations.  I always pack a backpack of water bottles and flavor packets and that helps reduce the amount of drinks you have to buy.  Since you can reseal and place back in backpack, you can always hydrate while waiting in line for a ride.

 

 

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Strollers are a must with small kids.  A few things will make it easier:  1) Mark your stroller in some way to distinguish it from others and be easily spotted.  Cast members move them out of the way often and it's not always where you left it.  2) Take a poncho or something to keep it dry in a rain storm.  3) Take your own stroller instead of a rental.  The rentals don't lay flat and you want to be able to let baby nap in it while you shop or stop for a meal.  4) Make sure it folds up.  You can take the open stroller on the monorail but the buses between parks and resorts require them to be folded.  

There are only a handful of rides that small children aren't allowed to ride so plan on taking them on all that you can.  

Take advantage of the baby care centers in the parks.  In a pinch, you can purchase diapers, wipes and formula.  It's at a premium price though so pack as much as you can to take in with you.  I always carry a large backpack with food and drinks with a small ice pack - Disney allows you to bring all of that in.

 

Take plenty of pictures - one thing is true about a baby at Disney - they won't remember it.  But trust me when I say that as parents, you will never forget the first time your baby smiles at Mickey Mouse!

Haunted Mansion

This is one of my favorite videos of Luke at The Magic Kingdom.  We had just ridden The Haunted Mansion and he loved it.  If you're considering taking toddlers or preschoolers to Disney and think they're too young - think again!  While Luke may not have specific memories of this trip, the rest of us do and enjoy reminiscing.  Luke loves to watch these and laugh at how silly he was.

This might need a translation...  At the end, he says, "It was boo and scared me - just like a ghost!"